Kristin,
There simply are not the right words in the English language to describe or clearly articulate just how much you mean to me but this is my attempt to do just that.
One of the things I so admire about you is your ability to get things done, little things, big things, things that matter and things that don’t. I have watched you take on ridiculous things where there was absolutely NO WAY to pull it off in the amount of time you allotted for it and yet, you do, seeming to slide into some sort of freaky time warp thing where a 6-month project gets done in a few weeks. Because of you, I want to dig deeper to accomplish big things, little things, things that matter and things that don’t.
In all of our adventures both overseas and domestic, I have admired the way you fight through pain, without others around you even being aware of your struggles. You went into our very first Race2Adventure trip to Ireland with a bum ankle. You had it taped up and said you were fine. You ran 50 yards maybe, of that first race and that was it. You spent the rest of that trip bandaged and taped up, hobbling around, taking pictures, videos and having the best time! Then there was Italy. Right out of the gates, while on our first race up the Dolomites your allergies kicked in and never stopped. The allergy medication was quickly spent, yours and mine. Multiple trips to the pharmacias, resulted in little relief. I think you also broke your tooth on this trip and were in dire pain towards the end, but no one was amu wiser. On the Scotland trip, again on the first day of our visit, you thought you were cool and jumped off our little red tour bus and pretty much blew out your knee! And yet, in true Kristin form you kept the wheels on the bus going round and round and actually ran most of the races that trip, in spite of a knee that kept giving out. Then there was the trip of all trips with a 20-mile hike in and out of the Grand Canyon , with a 40lb pack. You managed to catch some horrific lung/chest cold. You blamed allergies and dust from your garage. I blamed that moldy air conditioner in the first hotel. Either way, you were in rough shape, the whole trip. We knew you were miserable but you never complained. That last morning, at 3am, you put the pack on and we hiked our asses out of that canyon, one step at a time. I was so proud of you and beyond impressed. Because of you I want to be less of a pussy, fight through the pain 😊 and not have a shit attitude because of it.
There are so many other stories, things to share, things I want you to know. Because of you, I have traveled the world and never thought I would do any of those things. When you had COVID and were trying to leave me to travel to Italy on my own, I about lost my eve- loving mind!! The thought of traveling without you, my travel partner, my security blanket, caused pure panic in every cell of my body. Luckily that dread brought out my best problem-solving abilities and I convinced you to NOT cancel, give COVID a chance to clear up and we managed to be on a plane a few days later, Italy bound!!! Of course by the time we were heading home I had COVID. You swaddled me in your blankets and hand warmers, trying to make me as comfortable as possible on that cold cement airport floor. Again, the best travel companion ever!
Then there are your number massaging, financial jedi math tricking magic ways that resulted in me being able to buy a home. Because of you I own a home. Without your help, reassurance and finagling I wouldn’t have been able to do that. As an adult I seriously did not want to ever own a home but in time, I realized that adulting may be a good thing and you were a huge part of that.
Finally, I admire how you show up for your friends, family and the people you love; there seems to be no end to your giving, tireless nature and the love you have to share. I watched this so beautifully and heartbreakingly demonstrated as you helped Dan in his dying process. Dan wasn’t ready to go, was sick, no energy and yet you knew the end was near. Your love, compassion and empathy for Dan’s situation had to strike a balance with the fact that he had no plan, no will, no last words and testament, nothing. With little time to truly spare, you helped him get those things in place, as painful as that was, and then planned and orchestrated his memorial in Page. I have seen you do this in other ways, with other friends, having to balance compassion with tough love, because you love, because you care, because you are willing to give all of what you have to help someone when they have NOTHING left in them. Because of you I want to show up in bigger and better ways for the people I love.
I want you to know that I love you so, so much and am so grateful for your friendship, how you have included my nephew in your and Karin’s life, and how you have been there for me through losses and gains, grieving and celebrating all along the way. You are evidence that strength and softness do co-exist, that grit and grace are not opposites and that love, real love, shows up in ACTIONS not just words.
I hope the next 50 years brings you the same care, loyalty, adventure and love that you so freely give to everyone else. You deserve every bit of it. Thank you for being my financer, my travel partner, my friend and know that because of you I have laughed harder, traveled farther, lived larger and loved longer.
Happy 50th Birthday my friend.
Much love always,
Tiffany “Booth”